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kinkyandpolyEssentially, I am a Dominant, Jack is a switch and a painslut, and Lucy is a submissive and loves to be tied up. But I came across https://bdsmtest.org which says The BDSM Test is a fun and educational test to determine what kind of kinkster you are. It was founded in 2014 with as its main mission to make a simple, accessible test to help beginning kinksters determine which labels are or aren't suitable for them; and to be a fun experience for everyone taking it, beginners and experts alike.
I've seen a few people on fetlife posting their results, and was curious about what it would say about me so I took the test. I pretty much agree with my results which were == Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Dominant
100% Rigger
80% Non-monogamist
75% Experimentalist
70% Master/Mistress
66% Exhibitionist
59% Degrader
58% Primal (Hunter)
52% Daddy/Mommy
51% Brat tamer
51% Sadist
47% Voyeur
46% Owner
21% Ageplayer
18% Vanilla
0% Switch
http://bdsmtest.org/r/jVfWVgFG
I definitely call myself a Dominant and a Non-Monogamist, would pretty much call us experimental, but I wasn't sure about Mistress or Rigger as describing me. However, reading their definitions? No I'm definitely agreeing with all of those!
Dominant Dominants like to be in charge. Some like to have their partner obey them without questioning, others like some resistance while taking it their way. Some are dominant only in the bedroom, others are dominant throughout their daily life as well. Unlike the top roles (giving pain/bondage/degradation), being dominant is more about who decides what happens (and takes the responsibility that comes with it) than about the contents of what happens.
Rigger Riggers like to tie up and restrain their partner(s), using rope and/or other attributes (chains, cuffs, spreader bars, etc.). Whether for sexual enhancement, for art or just for fun, they enjoy having their partners completely at their mercy.
Non-monogamist Non-monogamists do not see sexuality as necessarily a 1 on 1 thing. Whether this means they will have several relationships or just see other people outside their relationship (or have even more exquisite constructions) depends entirely on the person and the situation, but they all have one thing in common: their sexuality is more than just between them and one fixed partner.
Experimentalist Experimentalists want to have tried it all. An open mind and an insatiable curiosity are their key features, and they will rarely form an opinion before they have gathered first hand experience. They often have plenty of fantasies and will actively pursue to try them out.
Master/Mistress Masters/Mistresses receive complete control over the life of their slave(s), and all responsibilities that come with it. They go a step further than dominants in the sense that their power exchange is present 24/7 and in all aspects of their life (except for negotiated exceptions such as during their office jobs). Their primary focus is to create a stable and safe environment for their slave(s), to allow optimal servitude.
So then I got Jack and Lucy to take the test!
Jack got == Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Switch
98% Rigger
97% Brat
86% Masochist
85% Sadist
80% Non-monogamist
75% Experimentalist
75% Submissive
73% Dominant
72% Primal (Prey)
71% Slave
70% Degrader
63% Rope bunny
60% Primal (Hunter)
60% Exhibitionist
57% Voyeur
56% Brat tamer
49% Master/Mistress
46% Owner
46% Degradee
43% Daddy/Mommy
39% Ageplayer
36% Pet
18% Vanilla
10% Boy/Girl
http://bdsmtest.org/r/shFmreCu
Switch Switches like to... well, switch. Always taking a dominant or top position is not for them, neither is always taking a submissive or bottom position. Some prefer to switch with the same partner or partners, others have a dominant play partner and a submissive play partner, but in either case they do not fit on one end point of the spectrum.
Brat Brats are, in essence, naughty submissives. They find disobedience a form of playfulness rather than letting their dominant down, and require a compatible dominant who will not only teach them a lesson, but also accept that any number of lessons might still not necessarily change this behavior.
Masochist Masochists enjoy receiving (certain types of) pain from their partner(s), usually in a sexual context. Masochism is independent of pain tolerance: it is purely about the ability to enjoy (or get aroused by) certain levels of pain.
Sadist Sadists enjoy inflicting (certain types of) pain on their partner(s), usually in a sexual context. and Lucy got
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Submissive
100% Rope bunny
88% Slave
84% Non-monogamist
83% Masochist
75% Experimentalist
56% Exhibitionist
51% Brat
48% Primal (Prey)
46% Ageplayer
45% Voyeur
42% Pet
39% Degradee
10% Boy/Girl
1% Vanilla
0% Switch
http://bdsmtest.org/r/nvqZFYfm
Submissive Submissives like to follow. Some like to give the control away to their partner(s), some like to have it forcibly taken from them. Some are submissive only in the bedroom, others are submissive throughout their daily life as well (usually with limitations). Unlike the bottom roles (receiving pain/bondage/degradation), being submissive is more about who decides what happens (and takes the responsibility that comes with it) than about the contents of what happens.
Rope bunny Rope bunny likes to be tied up and restrained, using rope and/or other attributes (chains, cuffs, spreader bars, etc.). Whether for sexual enhancement, for art or just for fun, they enjoy being totally at the mercy of their partner(s).
Slave Slaves completely hand over the control and responsibilities over their life to their master/mistress. They go a step further than submissives in the sense that their power exchange is present 24/7 and in all aspects of their life (except for negotiated exceptions such as during their office jobs). Serving their master/mistress is their primary focus in life and they rarely have limits for them.
We were all (Jack included!) very surprised that Jack got 'brat' and that Lucy had some of it in her results. I also love that even after all these years we can still learn these new things about ourselves and each other, so we're going to do some research and see if we can incorporate some of it into our play.
We've also been talking about a more 24/7 thing, especially for Lucy - things have been moving more into that way recently anyway so we're again researching and working things out. I know she's keen on it, although Jack isn't so there'll be some negotiating and laying down guidelines etc.
I've seen a few people on fetlife posting their results, and was curious about what it would say about me so I took the test. I pretty much agree with my results which were == Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Dominant
100% Rigger
80% Non-monogamist
75% Experimentalist
70% Master/Mistress
66% Exhibitionist
59% Degrader
58% Primal (Hunter)
52% Daddy/Mommy
51% Brat tamer
51% Sadist
47% Voyeur
46% Owner
21% Ageplayer
18% Vanilla
0% Switch
http://bdsmtest.org/r/jVfWVgFG
I definitely call myself a Dominant and a Non-Monogamist, would pretty much call us experimental, but I wasn't sure about Mistress or Rigger as describing me. However, reading their definitions? No I'm definitely agreeing with all of those!
Dominant Dominants like to be in charge. Some like to have their partner obey them without questioning, others like some resistance while taking it their way. Some are dominant only in the bedroom, others are dominant throughout their daily life as well. Unlike the top roles (giving pain/bondage/degradation), being dominant is more about who decides what happens (and takes the responsibility that comes with it) than about the contents of what happens.
Rigger Riggers like to tie up and restrain their partner(s), using rope and/or other attributes (chains, cuffs, spreader bars, etc.). Whether for sexual enhancement, for art or just for fun, they enjoy having their partners completely at their mercy.
Non-monogamist Non-monogamists do not see sexuality as necessarily a 1 on 1 thing. Whether this means they will have several relationships or just see other people outside their relationship (or have even more exquisite constructions) depends entirely on the person and the situation, but they all have one thing in common: their sexuality is more than just between them and one fixed partner.
Experimentalist Experimentalists want to have tried it all. An open mind and an insatiable curiosity are their key features, and they will rarely form an opinion before they have gathered first hand experience. They often have plenty of fantasies and will actively pursue to try them out.
Master/Mistress Masters/Mistresses receive complete control over the life of their slave(s), and all responsibilities that come with it. They go a step further than dominants in the sense that their power exchange is present 24/7 and in all aspects of their life (except for negotiated exceptions such as during their office jobs). Their primary focus is to create a stable and safe environment for their slave(s), to allow optimal servitude.
So then I got Jack and Lucy to take the test!
Jack got == Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Switch
98% Rigger
97% Brat
86% Masochist
85% Sadist
80% Non-monogamist
75% Experimentalist
75% Submissive
73% Dominant
72% Primal (Prey)
71% Slave
70% Degrader
63% Rope bunny
60% Primal (Hunter)
60% Exhibitionist
57% Voyeur
56% Brat tamer
49% Master/Mistress
46% Owner
46% Degradee
43% Daddy/Mommy
39% Ageplayer
36% Pet
18% Vanilla
10% Boy/Girl
http://bdsmtest.org/r/shFmreCu
Switch Switches like to... well, switch. Always taking a dominant or top position is not for them, neither is always taking a submissive or bottom position. Some prefer to switch with the same partner or partners, others have a dominant play partner and a submissive play partner, but in either case they do not fit on one end point of the spectrum.
Brat Brats are, in essence, naughty submissives. They find disobedience a form of playfulness rather than letting their dominant down, and require a compatible dominant who will not only teach them a lesson, but also accept that any number of lessons might still not necessarily change this behavior.
Masochist Masochists enjoy receiving (certain types of) pain from their partner(s), usually in a sexual context. Masochism is independent of pain tolerance: it is purely about the ability to enjoy (or get aroused by) certain levels of pain.
Sadist Sadists enjoy inflicting (certain types of) pain on their partner(s), usually in a sexual context. and Lucy got
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Submissive
100% Rope bunny
88% Slave
84% Non-monogamist
83% Masochist
75% Experimentalist
56% Exhibitionist
51% Brat
48% Primal (Prey)
46% Ageplayer
45% Voyeur
42% Pet
39% Degradee
10% Boy/Girl
1% Vanilla
0% Switch
http://bdsmtest.org/r/nvqZFYfm
Submissive Submissives like to follow. Some like to give the control away to their partner(s), some like to have it forcibly taken from them. Some are submissive only in the bedroom, others are submissive throughout their daily life as well (usually with limitations). Unlike the bottom roles (receiving pain/bondage/degradation), being submissive is more about who decides what happens (and takes the responsibility that comes with it) than about the contents of what happens.
Rope bunny Rope bunny likes to be tied up and restrained, using rope and/or other attributes (chains, cuffs, spreader bars, etc.). Whether for sexual enhancement, for art or just for fun, they enjoy being totally at the mercy of their partner(s).
Slave Slaves completely hand over the control and responsibilities over their life to their master/mistress. They go a step further than submissives in the sense that their power exchange is present 24/7 and in all aspects of their life (except for negotiated exceptions such as during their office jobs). Serving their master/mistress is their primary focus in life and they rarely have limits for them.
We were all (Jack included!) very surprised that Jack got 'brat' and that Lucy had some of it in her results. I also love that even after all these years we can still learn these new things about ourselves and each other, so we're going to do some research and see if we can incorporate some of it into our play.
We've also been talking about a more 24/7 thing, especially for Lucy - things have been moving more into that way recently anyway so we're again researching and working things out. I know she's keen on it, although Jack isn't so there'll be some negotiating and laying down guidelines etc.
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