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kinkyandpolyJack's favourite thing in the world is to be spanked. I'm pretty sure that if I gave him the option between a spanking or a blowjob, he'd pick a spanking - he gets off on them both. The man is a total pain slut, he can actually orgasm from having his ass paddled. He fucking loves it.
That's not to say I don't also enjoy spanking him. Believe me, I do. To start with, he has a damn nice ass so when he's bent over, ass presented up and head down, it's a delicious sight. Watching the colours bloom across his skin, pinks and reds and purple - and the welts if we're playing harder. There's something so erotic about he way he arches his back, shifts his feet like he doesn't know if he wants to push into or pull away from each strike, and the noises he makes. I also love how sensitive his ass is to play with - stimulated nerves, increased blood flow, adrenaline - even just the brush of fingertips over his ass after a spanking can be... explosive! Yes, I do rather enjoy giving out a good spanking.
It's also about the trust he puts in me to do this with/for/to him. It's humbling. He knows I know the line and how to keep it fun - because I also know how to make it a punishment and not at all enjoyable for him.
I'm not one of those dominants who always knew they were a dom, who always knew they liked to tie people up and spank them etc. My sex life had honestly been pretty vanilla until I met Jack, until he asked me to spank him. He knew he liked it, he knew he needed it and he already trusted me enough to ask me for what he needed. And I wanted him enough to give it a go. Turned out I really enjoyed it so it has worked out well but I know he's had partners in the past who when he'd asked them, it didn't work out so he was already hesitant.
Oh, we made some mistakes back in those early days - learning about different implements, how far and hard to take it, not knowing about aftercare. The first time Jack went into subspace it terrified me - I thought I'd broken him. But he guided me through what he knew and we learned a lot together.
And I learned I really love being in control. I'm honored at the trust both Jack and Lucy put in me (although she's not big on pain like he is, she does love a playful spanking) and I love that we still get to play like this together, after all these years
That's not to say I don't also enjoy spanking him. Believe me, I do. To start with, he has a damn nice ass so when he's bent over, ass presented up and head down, it's a delicious sight. Watching the colours bloom across his skin, pinks and reds and purple - and the welts if we're playing harder. There's something so erotic about he way he arches his back, shifts his feet like he doesn't know if he wants to push into or pull away from each strike, and the noises he makes. I also love how sensitive his ass is to play with - stimulated nerves, increased blood flow, adrenaline - even just the brush of fingertips over his ass after a spanking can be... explosive! Yes, I do rather enjoy giving out a good spanking.
It's also about the trust he puts in me to do this with/for/to him. It's humbling. He knows I know the line and how to keep it fun - because I also know how to make it a punishment and not at all enjoyable for him.
I'm not one of those dominants who always knew they were a dom, who always knew they liked to tie people up and spank them etc. My sex life had honestly been pretty vanilla until I met Jack, until he asked me to spank him. He knew he liked it, he knew he needed it and he already trusted me enough to ask me for what he needed. And I wanted him enough to give it a go. Turned out I really enjoyed it so it has worked out well but I know he's had partners in the past who when he'd asked them, it didn't work out so he was already hesitant.
Oh, we made some mistakes back in those early days - learning about different implements, how far and hard to take it, not knowing about aftercare. The first time Jack went into subspace it terrified me - I thought I'd broken him. But he guided me through what he knew and we learned a lot together.
And I learned I really love being in control. I'm honored at the trust both Jack and Lucy put in me (although she's not big on pain like he is, she does love a playful spanking) and I love that we still get to play like this together, after all these years
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